Yes, this is the way we all are!

The first step in increasing successful human relationships is to properly understand people and their nature. When you have a proper understanding of human nature and people, when you know why people do the things that they do, when you know why and how people will react under certain conditions, then and only then- can you become a skillful manager of people. Understanding people and human nature simply involves recognizing people for what they are, not what you think they are, nor what you want them to be.

Remember that actions of human are governed by self thought and self interest. This trait is so strong in human that the dominant thought in charity is the satisfaction or pleasure that the giver gets from giving, not the gratitude received from the getter, that comes second. This knowledge that people are primarily interested in themselves give us the power and skill in dealing with other human being effectively.

We don't have to apologise, or become embarrassed in recognizing that man's nature is self interest, it has been that way from the beginning of time and will be that way till the end of time for man was put on earth with that nature. We are all alike in this respect, but the question arises here that what kind of self interest has man always been enduring.

Is it constant happiness that we look for?

What kind of activities that we are manifesting in to have the pleasure of uninterrupted happiness?

Are we gathering lots of luxurious facilities around us and sure enough to remained happy ever after or it keeps us happy till the next desire comes in mind?

Lets reflect upon these thoughts!